Dating service health problems
x I don't know what your condition is jetblack, but if you have any issues regarding self-esteem and/or physical self-image my advice would be to avoid dating sites like the plague, because the experience can be extremely triggering.Truthfully, people go on looks way more than they do in 'real life' (and people go on looks in real life way more than most are willing to admit...), and on the paid sites there is a much greater emphasis on potential dates' personal wealth. I used to get paid more than a lot of so-called 'professionals', but a lot of people specify 'other professionals only'.although, in my case, no point bothering with one either, haha), and a 'personal statement' where, to have any hope of a response, you have to write the standard; 'ambitious, outgoing, likes travelling, enjoys nights out but also quiet evenings in with a bottle of wine, yada yada yada BULLSH*T!' Unless you're good-looking, in which case you can pretty much write what you want. look at it this way; if somebody is really 'outgoing', travels a lot, etc., then why can't they meet someone in their everyday life?! we have an excuse - our condition - but what's their excuse? Rhetorical question, because I'm going to tell you - their issue is one or more of the following; i) Unrealistically picky - such people usually have a list of 'musts', which is either so long that it's unfeasible to find somebody who meets that many criteria, or has criteria which directly contradict each other.
In case I get married, the guy will be fully occupied in arranging stuff for me. Busy in looking for doctors who treats hyperhidrosis. Guys don't wish to hold my hand as they are wet and cold all the time, they get ewwwww feel.
Of course there are always exceptions to this, but to my mind the wheat/chaff ratio is way too skewed toward the latter for the risk/reward equation to be even vaguely close to desirable; too little chance of the exercise being worth the effort. There is a free website which is actually totally dedicated to people with mental health problems dating.
My friend who uses the free sites is having a bit more success here.
I wrote such a big answer cause I feel connected to every woman and for that matter any person who struggles due to medical illness before marriage.
Don't worry, I still look same :-PWell, I am a patient of Hyperhidrosis, Anaemia, impaired immunity, etc, etc. My body tends to overheat and reacts strangely to outside temperature.
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You are not any different to my neighbour who has care needs and regular specialist treatment.